Discover Your Ikigai: A Year-Long Journey to Fulfillment
Introduction
Have you ever felt like something was missing in your life? Perhaps you have a successful career, a loving family, and plenty of hobbies, yet there’s a nagging feeling that you’re not truly fulfilled. This is me, a woman in my 60s, living a seemingly comfortable retirement, but lacking a deeper sense of purpose. That’s when I stumbled upon the Japanese concept of ikigai, loosely translated as “a reason for being.” I planned a year-long journey to discover and live my ikigai. This is my plan, and I invite you to take these steps to start your own Ikigai Project.
Month 1: The Foundation – Understanding Ikigai
The first month of the journey is all about understanding the concept of ikigai. Ikigai is found at the intersection of four elements: what you love, what you’re good at, what the world needs, and what you can be paid for. Spend this month reflecting on these elements in your life and begin journaling your thoughts, dreams, and passions. This will lay the groundwork for the rest of the year.
Month 2: Passion – Reconnecting with What You Love
The second month, focus on rediscovering your passions. Revisit hobbies that have fallen by the wayside, such as painting and gardening. Also explore new interests, like learning to play the piano. This month is about reconnecting with the things that bring you joy, without any pressure to excel or achieve. It is liberating to do things simply because you love them.
Month 3: Vocation – Aligning Your Skills with Purpose
Month three is dedicated to your vocation. Evaluate your career and ask yourself if it is truly aligned with your skills and passions. Start seeking opportunities within your job that allow you to use your talents in a way that feels meaningful. For instance, volunteering to teach chair yoga at a senior center, would not only utilize yoga experience but also give a sense of helping the elderly improve their health.
Month 4: Mission – Making a Difference in the World
Month four is all about identifying your mission—what the world needs from you. Explore causes that resonated with you, such as environmental conservation and women’s rights. Begin volunteering at a local organization that supports your cause for example empowering women to start their businesses. This month, focus on how important it is to feel that your efforts are making a difference in the world, no matter how small.
Month 5: Profession – Finding Financial Harmony
Month five is the time to focus on your profession—what you can be paid for. Assess how you can align your career with your ikigai without compromising financial stability. This involves having an honest conversation with your employer about your aspirations and exploring side projects that match your ikigai. For example, begin offering freelance services in your field for the cause of your choice, which provide both income and fulfillment.
Month 6: Integrating Ikigai – Creating a Balanced Life
Month six is about integration. Work on harmonizing the four elements of ikigai in your daily life. For example, setting boundaries at work to ensure you have time for your passions and volunteer work. Also, practice mindfulness to stay present and grateful for each aspect of your ikigai.
Month 7: Overcoming Challenges – Staying True to Your Ikigai
In month seven, be prepared for challenges balancing the demands of life while staying true to your ikigai. Use these challenges as opportunities to grow. Be patient with yourself and accept that the journey to finding and living your ikigai is ongoing.
Month 8: Deepening Connections – Building Community
Month eight is dedicated to community. ikigai is not just an individual journey; it’s also about connecting with others. Deepen relationships with friends and family, share your journey with them, and seek out communities of like-minded people. For example, join a local group of women who meet monthly to discuss personal growth.
Month 9: Spirituality – Connecting with Your Inner Self
In month nine, explore the spiritual aspect of ikigai. Spend more time in nature, practice meditation, and reflect on your inner self. Seek to understand the deeper meaning of life and how it connects to the world around you. This month is transformative, as it helps develop a stronger sense of inner peace and purpose.
Month 10: Creativity – Expressing Your Ikigai
Month ten is all about creativity. Embrace creative expression as a way to live your ikigai. Take up writing, drawing, painting, or anything that inspires you. I took up writing this blog to share and inspire others. This creative outlet became a vital part of my life, bringing me immense joy and fulfillment.
Month 11: Reflection – Assessing Your Journey
Month eleven is a time for reflection. Look back on the year and assess how far you have come. Revisit your journal entries, note your growth, and recognize areas where you still need work. Also, celebrate the small victories and acknowledge that living your ikigai is a continuous journey, not a destination.
Month 12: Gratitude – Embracing the Present
Month twelve, the final month of your Ikigai Project, is focused on gratitude. Make a conscious effort to practice gratitude daily, and appreciate every aspect of your life and your journey. Realize that ikigai is not just about the future but also about finding joy and purpose in the present moment. End the year with a heart full of gratitude and a deep sense of fulfillment.
Conclusion
The Ikigai Project is a transformative journey for you, helping you discover and live your purpose. It’s not always easy, and it requires ongoing effort, but the rewards are immeasurable. If you’re feeling unfulfilled or searching for deeper meaning in your life, I encourage you to start your own Ikigai Project. Take it one month at a time, and watch as your life begins to align with your true purpose.
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